EDU T&L 108.01 Discussion Board

According to Yuki’s response, he wrote that there are still so many husbands who have high expectation to their wives and this is the typical figure of men. I totally agree men are typical thinking that household chores are not man’s part. In Korea, there is a common saying like men should far from kitchen, which means med do not have responsibilities about household chores. So men has a tendency that household is not men’s part. Same as Yuki, I also have a chance to re-think about what being good husband is and what successful marriage is. Yuki said that most husbands are expecting a lot of things to do in a home to his wife like household chores. Similar with Yuki, I think that many husbands forget his wife has many jobs like as a wife of husband, as a mother of children, and as a housemaid of a family, even though he has only one job. However, a wife is not a perfect person. She cannot do well all things in a same time. Namely, husbands have to share responsibilities with their wives.
If I get married with my lover, I will share the all household chores with a wife. I think that living together with lover means to helping and sharing each other, if a wife is doing what Brady said in the essay, what the difference between a wife and a housemaid? Marriage is that meeting with lover and sharing the life. As Yuki, this essay gave me many thought about marriage and then life in a home.