Sunday, July 18, 2004

 

Response to Amelia's post #3 (from Po-Kai)

____According to Amelia’s response, I agree with her idea that a man can cry but cannot slap woman. In most Asian countries especially influenced by Chinese culture or Confucianism, the positions of woman in the family always lower than man. In most of Asian family, men go out to work for supporting their entire family. Because of that, men always have pressure or not cheerful things from their job. When they go back home and also their wife keep complain something and make them angry, they slap their wife if they cannot control their emotion. When most of women suffer this kind of situations, they can only be quiet and do nothing because these women cannot divorce and go home to live with their parents. This will make shame their family. Also, most of these women cannot find a job to support themselves, they only can do is stay with their husband. This is a very bad model for their children, and not a good way to show you feeling. A man should have a understanding of their wife’s situation, and tries to use communicate instead of violence; however, wife also need to make allowances their husband because they work so hard already. Now, in most Asian company, they provide courses for employees to learn how to control emotion. That is so called E.Q. (Emotion Quotient.) Also, more and more company recruits new employees by testing their E.Q. first because an employee has good E.Q will also enhance the productivity of their department. E.Q. now is become very important for everyone who wants to find a good job. So, back to Amielia’s opinion, man should not treat woman or their wife like servants. Man should their respect to their wife. Also, man and woman should control their feeling or emotion very well when they living together because that is the source of a harmony family

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