Monday, July 19, 2004

 

response for vonny

I totally agree with Vonny’s opinion about how most Asian still value son more than daughter because they believe that son can continue their family while daughter will follow her husband. In some cases, I agree with that because a son will be the head of the family and he will bring family name in his family. And for most Asians, family name is important and should be carried proudly. Vonny also mention about how Apa taught that Joon suppose to be tough and brave. He cannot cry and express their feeling. This taught bring a bad character for Joon in the future. It can make him stressful. In my country, this mindset still occurs for some people. A man must be more tough and brave. So it is so hard for man to express their love to others. However, this kind of taught will bring a bad impact. It will create a gap between man and his friend, or even to his children. On the other hand, Apa also cannot do that. He still show his soft side when his mom died. I think expression of feeling should be showed so that people can know our feeling and know about us in deep level.

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